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Breaking the Model

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Unless we make an effort, we do what we have seen as kids. It’s one reason I took parenting classes, but that’s another story.  I did not want to be the kind of host my mother patterned. She was so nervous that things would not be perfect enough that life was a bit intolerable in our house the day of a dinner party.

In my prior marriage with Sam’s daddy, his best way to pitch in was to help clean the house and then take the kiddos out for a couple of hours so I could do the food prep without any “Mommy, I need you” kind of distractions. That worked for us.father-and-children

With Graham, we split the tasks nicely.  We clean first, often to music.  The house is straightened and cleaned, altho perhaps not to my mother’s standard. It is clean enough that our guests will not contract any disease or illness eating at our table. Black_and_White_Cartoon_of_a_Maid_Whistling_While_She_Works_clipart_imageHe is a pretty darn good cook, so he tends to do the entree and side while I prepare another side and the dessert. Today I am also preparing the appetizer.

strawberry ice creamThe ham is in the oven. The sides (baked tomatoes and a corn strata) and appetizer (baked brie with smoked blueberry jam I canned) are prepped and ready to pop into the oven at the right time. The dessert (strawberry-rhubarb pie with strawberry ice cream) was prepared yesterday.

It is a truly wonderful thing to break bread with friends. Try it sometime. Pizza works just as well as this home-cooked meal. Do not let your concern over your cooking skills keep you from entertaining your friends at home. It is a lovely gift of friendship.Hospitality-is-not-about....-682x1024

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Author: GoingPlaces Can-Do Zero Waste

I moved to McMinnville a few years ago and was impressed with its friendliness and the beauty of the surrounding countryside. I write several blogs. GoingPlacesLivingLife is my personal blog related to travel, food and just general thoughts. Can-Do Real Food tells about my business processing local produce from small farms and preserving it by canning and dehydrating. The concept of Zero Waste appeals to me because we can truly reduce what gets tossed into the landfill with very small changes in our lifestyle. Join us.

5 thoughts on “Breaking the Model

  1. I think it’s something I need to work on……

    • I asked my mom why she was so anxious. I pointed out to her that everyone she was inviting for the meal was a person she loved and loved her. Surely she didn’t need to worry so much….but she chose to. It is not necessary, really, to be so concerned. Just do what is comfortable and your friends will love your hospitality

    • So easy to make your friends feel loved….grilled cheese and tomato soup, hamburgers on the grill, peanut butter and jelly sandwiches…it is not the menu but the warmth of your welcome…something you know very well, Patti!

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